It seems that winter is a time for contemplating what is happening in my life. Each year adds new challenges to my life making me wonder sometimes what will be next. I find that it is better to make that a passing thought rather than dwell on what’s to come. We can’t change it anyway, so I believe it is better to take things one day at a time and deal with things as they arise.
In this gray, leafless wintertime of life
when reflection dominates my thinking
age blankets memory snowy, cold, twinkling
covering over old pain, hurt, and strife,
Forgetting past, and sometimes the present,
I contemplate future things to come.
Will old age smile on the end of my run?
Can I peacefully pass on contented?
Life goes on, independent of us,
New changes come, without my consent.
All I can do is watch, and make a fuss;
But, if I have no choice in what’s to come,
why should I worry or fret with resentment?
To stay or leave does not really matter.
It’s making the most of each day that counts.
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wonderful and great attitude, I see it the same way
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Thank you very much Beth. It seems like the best approach to me.
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And here I am melting in the Australian heat of Summer. “New changes come, without my consent.” Even in the summer sun. Every day really does count.
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Oh, I am ready for some warmer days. It is to go down to 18 F here tonight! Yes, every day is a gift.
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Winter is white but the reflections are not always right
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Yes, very true. We’ll try not to dwell on what’s to come, but for poets who reflect and ponder about life, it seems difficult at times.
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Yes, those thoughts keep coming around! Thank you!
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Making the most of each day sounds like a good attitude, I really like the way you have expressed the experience of the wintering of age. It’s definitely the attitude I want to have too. ππ
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Thank you very much Morag!
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You are welcome.
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I feel the same here, Dwight. We got really cold but it’s warming up. The problem is it brings freezing rain throughout the night. I picked up an allergy this winter season. It’s been annoying since the end of October.
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It was 18 F here this morning! Thanks for sharing Miriam.
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You’re welcome, Dwight. We have icicles here but the weather is warming up.
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:>)
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love your contemplation and question here Dwight. Winter does give us time to hibernated and reflect on our life, lovely sharing β£οΈ
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Thank you very much Cindy. It is fun to contemplate!
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A fine philosophy well expressed
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Thank you Derrick,
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Enjoy every day and live fully.
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Yes!
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Beautiful poem.Reflective, wise, tinged with a bit of wistfulness Lovely.
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Thank you very much for your kind words!
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Beautifully said β€
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Thank you Eunice. Hope all is well as you are buried in mid-winter snow!
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Our flooding rains last week washed all but the snowbanks away then another 4″ arrived yesterday. I am doing good this year 2 small roof leaks to repair and since his major heart surgery was a success fingers crossed it stays that way.
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I love this, it speaks to me right in the moment.
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Thank you Paul! I am glad it connected with you.
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Beautifully said.
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Thank you very much!
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I agree with you about living the best of each day at this time of life.
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:>)
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Wow I love this poem! Especially the last line π
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Thank you M.B. My January Philosophy 101, :>)
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Cold here in UK but the light of the sun lengthens every day. Nearly Imbolc aka Candlemas aka St Brighid’s Day.
Snowdrops emerging, a few more birds singing. Saw a Waxwing, with a jaunty little crest/cockade on his head, today!
May you keep enjoying what each day brings, Dwight. Thank you for your writings π
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Thank you so much and thank you for reading my posts!
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Oh yes Dwight, it is indeed making the most of each day. As we think about living in our years, and now season of winter, we are facing some unexpected highs and lows, but as you noted, why should we worry about it. I concur wholeheartedly my friend. Continue to live your best life, no matter what! π₯°π₯πππ₯³
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Thank you Kym. I find that is the best policy for me, but there are some challenges that can distort that view it seems.
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Yeah, I know what you mean Dwight. Somehow, we still try to persevere anyhow. You are so very welcome my friend. πππ½π
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I love the acceptance of what is in your words. It certainly helps to enjoy each day as it comes without worry or fret.
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Thank you Astrid. There are things that come into play that distort this view as we face the challenges of life.
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Your poem inextricably links winter and a time of reflection. As one who appreciates that time of interiority your poem made me realize why I miss living in Colorado so much. It gave me ample time each year to dream before awakening in the spring.
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Dwight, I like how you adeptly navigate the theme of aging and existential contemplation, using the metaphor of winter…
~David
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Thank you David. These thoughts run through my mind more often as I get older!
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Dwight, you have hit the nail on the head with this poem and the βgray, leafless wintertime of lifeβ. It is strange to think that βlife goes on, independent of usβ, but I agree, Itβs making the most of each day that counts.
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Thank you Kim. Yes, we are just a blip in the larger scheme of things. I appreciate your thoughtful comment.
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Winter does that to us, maybe we have more time to reflect, but it is also the pain of cold and darkness that seems to add a lot of weight to us.
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Yes, the darkness can become a burden! Thank you Bjorn.
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Agreed! And today, it was exactly what I needed to read.
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Thank you so much! I am glad it connected with you.
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I appreciate the notion of not worrying or fretting, about things out of our control. I think winter often beckons self-reflection and can invite these un-answerable thoughts because we are often, due to the cold, indoors and meant to huddle in leisure, but we all have duties and obligations, so it is like we are sleepwalking, but wide awake.
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Thank you for your thoughtful comment! Aging does have its challenges.
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Now that’s the kind of attitude I love π
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Thank you Sanaa! I like it better than being a grumpy bitter old man! :>)
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I join you in pondering how the winter of our lives might progress … I also join you in maintaining my optimism. Well done, Dwight.
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Thank you Helen. Yes, stay positive!
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So good to see you at the reading today, Dwight. I appreciate your courage in reading the poem you did.
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Thank you Lisa. Things seem to be one sided when people only call for a ceasefire!
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You’re welcome.
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I enjoyed this very much Dwight, the last line is a wonderful summary of the necessary attitude for ageing and living.
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Thank you Paul. All we have is one day at a time the make the best of!
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Yes, absolutely Dwight π
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Your poem is both personal and universal, Dwight. The last line sums it up perfectly!
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Thank you very much, Merril. I am glad you enjoyed it. Good to see you on the group meeting.
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You’re welcome, Dwight!
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Lovely truths, Dwight, and beneficial. There is a peace to be found in taking one day at a time.
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Thank you Dora. I think you are right.
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Itβs making the most of each day that counts.
Yep. More wise words from another eloquent poem. Good to see/hear you at the Pub Saturday!
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Thank you. Yes the feeling is mutual. It is always exciting to connect with people from all over the world!
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Wise and well-penned advice, Dwight! I love the ‘age blankets memory’ line especially πππ
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Thank you very much Dawn! I find this to be true for myself.
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