
Alzheimer’s is the thief that keeps on stealing, slowly robbing you of all things present and finally all things past. We just returned from a visit with my wife’s father, who has been confined in an Alzheimer’s unit 2500 miles away from us. Our visits are great while we are there. He keeps remembering less and less as he now turns 91. This poem shares some of my thoughts as I reflect on our time together.
Dad
Though your mind has grown dim
Your personality is much the same
A surprised smile when we arrive
Your desire for family information…
That will not stay long in your memory
Your warm smile and appreciation
Always there when we visit
Always there when the staff helps you
Always there when we say goodbye
While we are there your joy
Is new every morning
Pockets of the past are still filled
With memory coins slowly slipping out
Through that black hole in your brain
Our visits are joyful // you still get my jokes
You laughter is genuine and full
Though you still ask our names from time to time
You are present in the moment // a gift every time
In spite of all you have been through
You have adapted and applied Paul’s words,
“In whatever state I am in //
…there I will be content.”
You won’t remember any of this
When we’re gone
But you sure enjoyed our visit
While we were with you
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Photo: Dwight L. Roth
His granddaughter Jen is walking for Justice to help young girls caught in Sex trafficking. See her story on her blog at:
https://walkingthewayforjustice.wordpress.com/2018/04/19/cafe-calvary/