Stings and Sweetness
“If we want to eat their honey, must we put up with their stings?“
As I was reading Judy Dykstra-Brown’s post, I came across this line. Bears have always known this and still they search for the honey. We have come up with suits to prevent the stings.
I realized that this is true of most relationships as well. Whether it be children or spouse, family or friends, we will have to put up with some stings in order to enjoy the benefits of being together. But in some relationships, you must keep your distance, or you will be stung to death!
Thorns guard roses
Bees guard their honey
Both must be carefully navigated
To enjoy their sweetness
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People are much the same
Sharp tongues guard fragile egos
Clothed in self-confidence
We bring out their sweetness
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“If we want to eat (enjoy) their honey, we must put up with their stings,,, “
Photos: Chris Roth
Click below to read Judy’s post:
The Vacant Lot | lifelessons – a blog by Judy Dykstra-Brown (judydykstrabrown.com)
So true!! Beautifully expressed! Love ❤️ it! (BTW, I try to bee 🐝 stingless!) ❤️🙏🏽
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Ha ha… you are very stingless and sweet as honey! Thanks Jan!
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Awww gee whiz – thanks!! 🥰
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Thank you, Dwight, for your words of wisdom.
Joanna
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You are welcome!
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Cleverly written Dwight, very thought provoking! 🤔👍💭 Love the comparison between the bee stings and human ones! 🐝❤️👏
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Thank you so much Ken! I appreciate your kind words.
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You’re welcome sir! 😁👍
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Excellent analogy!
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Thank you very much, Liz! There is a stinger or two in every family it seems!
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You’re welcome, Dwight! You’re right about that.
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I agree with Liz
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Love your poem! A perfect analogy and amazing insight of human relationships.
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Thank you Rosaliene. I appreciate your kind affirmation.
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Loved this. Smiled so true 😂
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so true: “But in some relationships, you must keep your distance, or you will be stung to death!”
beautifully described dear Dwight!
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Thank you so much! This is my son!
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Beautifully written.
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Thank you so much!
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“we will have to put up with some stings in order to enjoy the benefits of being together” This is so true to be honest. Well written all together and it really encouraged me you know. ❤ love the images as well. Stay blessed! 🙏🏼🕊💕
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Thank you so much! I am very glad you enjoyed the post!
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Welcome anytime ! Oh yes as per usual! 😊
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This poem speaks to me, Dwight. So true that we must endure some pain to enjoy the sweetness! ❤
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Thank you very much Cheryl. I am glad it connected with you.
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Wow you guys own your own bees? Fresh honey must be nice! ❣
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No, this is my son! He has one hive that he started this year.
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Thats so fun
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:>)
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Beautiful words Dwight!
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I love this analogy!
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Thank you very much!
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