I met my friend Sri last week for lunch. We had a wonderful time catching up with life and family and changes. He knows I have a sweet tooth, so he bought me a large cinnamon bun for dessert. I split it and we both enjoyed this shared experience. Good friends are wonderful and make life a joy.
Feelings
Some think life’s choices are about being right or wrong
I believe my choices are more about how life makes me feel
The love of another, the joy of a child, the compassion of a friend
Life is about that connection I feel when someone gets me and I them
That connection of interaction and validation beyond the superficial
A person can follow all the rules and “do things right”
and still be miserable, if that feeling of connection is missing
Life for me is about sharing the joy I feel with others
in spite of knowing some will never quite understand who I am
It is the appreciation that comes with kind affirmation
that renews and restores my confidence in myself
Life that is only about being right or wrong is a very cold life
For me, life is about feeling and loving deeply and caring for others
It is what makes my life worthwhile
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Photo selfie: Sriam B.
that heartfelt connection is what life is really about Dwight … those that miss that are not really living life to its fullest potential!
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Yes I fully agree with you. Friends are the food for the soul.
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I wholeheartedly agree, Dwight. Yes, “For me, life is about feeling and loving deeply and caring for others.” God bless you for making and keeping those connections.
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Thank you, Jan. Yes, I do value my good friends.
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Connection is an important key, on our own and with others. We, each, have our own to enjoy 🙂
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Friendship is what makes life worthwhile.
Joanna
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Yes it really is… Thank you my friend!
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Your feelings and compassion are always very evident through writings Dwight, and thank for sharing this lovely poem ..
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Thank you so much for your friendship and encouragement! We both seem to let it all out there for the world to see! :>)
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Yes … we do Dwight .. and Thank You ..
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:>)
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Beautiful music!
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yes ,.. simply superb ..
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So well said! I couldn’t agree more.
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Thank you, Liz. it is something I feel deeply about.
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You’re welcome, Dwight. I can tell.
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:>)
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Heartwarming, Dwight! ❤
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Thank you Cheryl!
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Meeting old friends is a great joy.
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Yes it really is…
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Friendship never end👍🥰
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Yes, you are right! Thank you.
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I’ll go with that. And the connections are still their even as one passes on
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Yes, they are still there as long as the memories are alive! Thank you Derrick.
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what beautiful smiles of both of you Dwight looking so happy and your words are so touching and true for me as well! 💖
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Thank you, Cindy. It was great getting together with him again.
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That’s so beautiful, Dwight. Lovely you were able to meet with your treasured friend, Sri, also. Such a happy photo of you two together. Genuine love and friendship is so beautiful. I am so thankful for the dear friends (and my husband and kids) with whom I have that heart to heart connection.
I am still healing from a childhood, where I learnt to detach from my pure emotions to be “a good girl”, to be “acceptable” and to “belong”, deciding that I could no longer trust those pure emotions pulsing through me. I still sometimes find myself detaching from how I feel, to “do the right thing” – and then the emotions hit me in full force days later. I look forward to heaven and being completely in psynch – body, mind and soul. In the meantime, I am thankful to God for His grace, also through those He has gifted me, who have loved me where I am at.
I now find myself praying more and more for little children around the world, who know a trauma so much greater and deeper than my own and have completely detached from their emotions to survive – never having tasted pure and genuine love. It breaks my heart.
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Thank you, Anna, for your heartfelt comments. It was great to get together with Sri. We have been friends for some time.
Sorry to hear of your difficult childhood. I am glad you are working through some of those issues.
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Well said and heartfelt, Dwight! Good friends make life much more meaningful.
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Yes, they sure do make a great difference in our lives. Thank you Eugi.
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You’re welcome, Dwight!
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This is a lovely truth, Dwight. ❤
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Thank you very much for your comment!
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Beautiful heartfelt words and post…Roth. Great connecting with you . BtwI too love cinnamon rolls!😊
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Thank you very much. Yum!
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