Friends Who Enrich Our Lives
As I look back on my life, I recall individuals who have enriched my life just by who they were and how they treated me and others. There are so many I could name in every stage of my life. My friend Bunky was one of those people.
Bunky ran a siding business and in 2005 I started working for him as the warehouse manager. I knew nothing about siding, but I did understand the building trade and was somewhat proficient on the computer. I came in and had a couple of hours orientation and started work the next day. He was very patient with me and helped me learn the details of the business. I worked there for six years.
Bunky was not just a boss, he was a friend. I sat in his office many times listening to his life experiences. He had so many great stories to tell. We became great friends during that time. Sadly, he died in 2017 in a fall at his mountain cabin. He will always be in that memory bank of friends.
Our friendship ran deep
Sharing life’s experiences
He died way too soon
Today at d’Verse, Frank asked us to choose something or someone we are thankful for in our life. I chose to write about my good friend Bunky Reges who was full of life and laughter. He came from “the old school” as they say. He was strongly opinionated but very likable to those who knew him well.
My Haiku at the end is a Senryu. I hope this will still pass for a Haibun.
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Photo: Dinner with Bunky and Celia at the mountain Shack! – Dwight L. Roth
Nothing quite like enjoying the company of friends and family. Especially over a mug up 😁
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Yes you are exactly right. Friends are a most important treasure! Thank you.
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A beautiful haibun, and testament to friendship.
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Thank you Ain. Friends are so important in our life.
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A great tribute, Dwight. Well done.🙏
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Thank you very much! I am glad you enjoyed it.
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I love your story of friendship.
Joanna
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Thank you, Joanna. He was a great one.
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This is a sweet piece, Dwight. It’s great to have good friends. We are at an age not to take that for granted anymore.
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Yes, I am afraid you are right about that! Cherish them while we can and honor them when they are gone. Thank you, Peter.
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A bittersweet memory. Thanks for sharing with us
much❤love
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Yes, it is. Thank you so much, Gillena.
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This haibun is a wonderful tribute to your friend.
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Thank you so much Liz. This photo says it all. They were very special people.
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You’re welcome, Dwight.
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Such a lovely tribute. I’ve been fortunate to have more than one such friend, and I am so thankful for them, each and every one. My life is enriched for having known them.
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It is amazing how friends can change the course of our life. Thank you, Beverly, for your comments.
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“that memory bank of friends” I love these words…this idea. I shall remember this idea. Thank you.
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Thank you so much, Lillian. I am glad it connected with you. We have so many such friends we could honor!
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A lovely way to honour your friend!
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Thank you so much. I have been blessed with many such friends in my lifetime. Bunky was one of the best.
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A fitting memorial for a friend. A senryu fits the haibun form, and this one so poignantly exclaims the story told in the prose.
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Thank you for your kind words, Frank! It was sad to lose him in this way!
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Nicely done
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Thank you so much!
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Beautiful! All friends die too soon.
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Seems that happens more and more as we get older! Thank you Mary.
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When we stop and think we remember so many people who have touched our lives in a meaningful way. Just like Bunky. Lovely Haibun Dwight ☺️
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As a person who has bad balance, and falls much too often, this piece really resonates with me. But I have to say, for him to check out that way in his cabin in the mountains and forest, that’s a blessing. Imagine if he had been on a subway, with people stepping over him?
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Yes, I agree, dying at a place you love is not a bad thing for sure. Thank you, Glenn for your comment!
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This is a beautiful tribute to your friend, Dwight. Those friendships certainly enrich our lives. I enjoyed your picture, too. Have a blessed and safe Thanksgiving.
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Thank you so much. You are exactly right! Without our friends we would poorer be!
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You’re welcome, Dwight! Thank you! Have a blessed Thanksgiving!
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You too!
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Thank
You!
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Great friends are golden treasure, you’ve been blessed by a beaitiful friend. Extremely sorry for your lost.
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Thank you so much! The memories are still cherished and friendships remembered.
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You’re most welcome Dwight! And yes those memories will live on forever.
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A fine tribute
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Thank you Derrick!
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Wonderful haibun! Friendship is truly a bond worth treasuring. 🙂
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It really is what brings joy in our lives.
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At the end of the day, it’s the people in our lives that really matter.
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Yes, you are exactly right! Thanks Sarah.
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Happy 🦃 Thanksgiving Dwight! 🙂
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Thank you, my friend! And the same to you!
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Reblogged this on The Reluctant Poet.
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A wonderful tribute to meaningful friendships, Dwight! I think my haibun ends with a senryu too 🙂
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Thank you, Lynn. I think most of them do on this prompt!
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The photo is almost my kitchen—but warmer 🙂
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How interesting! It was an old house he bought and remodeled that sat on the side of the mountain. He loved going there in the summer!
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Ah, that’s why it looks warmer 🙂
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Or maybe it was the people!?? :>)
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That too. But it was mainly the fact they were in short sleeves. You only see that here in July and August 🙂
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This was July! Summer in the mountains is always good.
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And so cool when everyone else is sweating 🙂
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Yes!
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Friendships like this are too precious for words, unless those words are as beautiful as these. Wonderful haibun, Dwight.
Pax,
Dora
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Thank you so much Dora! It is sad to see such good friends pass on.
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To have a friend who can also be your boss and I think your mentor in the trade… sad for him to pass that early, but it sounds like he did it at the best possible place.
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Yes, It was a great experience knowing him. And yes what better place!
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Your friend Bunky sounds like a special person, friend, and boss too. Rare to have all three in one person. Your story and poem about him are heartwarming. Sorry for your loss. 🌹
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Thank you, Michele. He was one of a kind. It was sad to see him go.
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I love friendships like this. So many people bless our lives … you have honored yet another of yours.
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I have been very blessed with so many great ones over the years!
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A beautiful memory.. Happy Belated Thanksgiving Dwight!🌷
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Thank you, Cindy. I hope yours was not too stressful. We had a great time with my son’s family.
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You’re welcome Dwight. Thanks for the wishes as you can see I’ve been MIA. Always lovely but LOTS of work.. So glad you enjoyed time with your son and his family!💖
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:>)
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Thanks for sharing this, Dwight… May I ask how old he was when he fell?
❤
David
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I believe 78 pr 79
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Friends are an important figure in our lives and can enrich the state of our life by ten fold and should be thankful by how they can make ours great. Love the tribute Dwight !
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Thank you very much for your comment!
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Wow.. thanks for sharing 👍
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You are welcome!
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