When I was ten years old, my parents announced to the four of us children that we were going to be having a baby brother or sister. Back then there were no tests to tell ahead of time. What a surprise for me (and I think for my parents as well). My mom was 43 at the time, and having a baby at that age was questionable back then, since the age factor could lead to issues like Downs Syndrome and others.
I remember being introduced to people as the “Baby of the family!” It brought a lot of good attention it seemed. But with the advent of my new little brother, all that changed over night. All went well and my brother Philip was born without any complications. He was the first of us to be born in the hospital! He was so cute and everyone loved him and showered him with attention. I don’t remember ever feeling jealous or left out as a result. I am sure it was a bigger adjustment for my parents than it was for us children. My sister was delighted to have a little brother and took him under her wing to look after.
Tomorrow, October 25th, he turns 64! It is hard to believe that so much time has passed since then. I wanted to write this post to wish him happy birthday!
What a nice surprise
A little brother arrived
Happy Birthday Phil
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Photo from family album
That is such a sweet picture of your little brother! He has both kitty and his thumb for comfort,
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Ha… yes he was well taken care of for sure!
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😀
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Love the picture and sweet memories.
pax,
dora
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Thank you Dora. It was fun to go back in time!
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And I add my good wishes to Phil, also! Happy 64th birthday, little brother. Enjoy your day – and have a splendid year!!
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Thank you Jan! I will pass on your good wishes.
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aww happy birthday to your little brother Phil so adorable Dwight! 💖
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Thank you Cindy! He was an adorable baby!
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You’re so welcome!! He sure was!💕
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This is a perfectly lovely post. Happy birthday to your younger brother! Thank you for sharing this tale and haiku and photo with all of us.
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Thank you very much Will! As you can see he was a very cute baby! I am so glad you enjoyed it!
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My little brother is only a year a 4 months younger than me, but there was 12 year gap to when my liitle sister was born … and yes … she was a lovely surprise for everyone in the family … thank you Dwight for reminding me of those wondrous childhood days, by sharing your lovely story with us … happy birthday to your little brother !!
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Thanks Ivor! His birthday brought back lots of memories! I am glad it connected with you. Thank you!
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How lovely! ☺️
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Thanks Jeff!
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You’re welcome, Dwight!!
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Awwww, how sweet Dwight. This is an endearing declaration of love, even if Philip is the baby of the family! 😉🤰🤱👪
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Yes, it is a great connection!. He is still going strong!
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That’s awesome to hear Big Brother Dwight! 🤗🥂😉
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Wonderful picture. Sweet verse you wrote.
Happy birthday to your brother.🎂🎂🎂
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Thank you very much!
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You are welcome.
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That’s such a sweet memory. Happy Birthday wishes to your brother!
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Thank you very much!
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Such a lovely story. Happy Birthday wishes to your brother!
Joanna
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Thank you Joanna! He was such a cute baby!
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Happy Birthday to Phil and to his big brother, congratulations. What a joy it must be to have a big brother like you. For that, congratulations. Lovely sentiment you penned. Thanks.
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Thank you Selma. It has gotten better as the years go by! I appreciate your comment!
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Happy Birthday to your brother Phil! 🎉 A sweet story and photo.
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Thank you Michele. He was a sweetie pie! :>)
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🥧 💖
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You are so lucky to still have each other. What an adorable baby he was.
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Yes, family is precious. It is great to have that connection. Thanks Judy!
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Aw, what a sweet photo and wonderful poem! Happy Birthday to Phil! 🙂 I hope he has a beautiful celebration! 🙂
I imagine you are THE BESTEST big brother, Dwight! 🙂
I can relate to Phil…I am the baby of 8 kids and my Mom was 40 when I was born. My oldest siblings were a lot like parents to me in many ways. 🙂
(((HUGS))) 🙂
Birthday(((HUGS))) for Phil! 🙂
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How fun! The youngest of 8 must have been interesting!
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Thank you Carolyn. I will pass your wishes on to Phil.
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You’re welcome! and thank you! 🙂
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A fine tribute
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Thank you Derrick!
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Outstanding haibun. Congrats! And happy birthday to your brother.
My “baby” sister will turn 64 next week.
I thought that you, as the elder sibling, might enjoy this:
https://eggsovertokyo.blogspot.com/2018/11/14-year-old-pediatrician.html
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Thank you Ron, for the great comment. I love your story about your baby sister! Sweets are always the go to fix! :>)
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What a beautiful story, Dwight! Happy Birthday to your brother.
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Thank you Eugi! Time keeps moving on!
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Yes, it does, and you’re welcome.
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Aww what a cute picture that is, happy birthday to him 🎉💝
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Thank you very much!
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You’re most welcome!
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Wonderful memories
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Thankyou so much!
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You made me smile today. Thank you.
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I heard of such surprise pregnancy stories several times. One of my friends was born 8 years younger than her older siblings. Her mother was around mid 40s when she found her self pregnant. The family moved from the northern part to the subtropical south, which in her mother’s opinion contributed to the pregnancy. Thank you for sharing such a loving family story. Wish all babies are born to loving families.
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Thankyou so much for reading and commenting. I love your interesting story. Amazing what people believe. Thank you for your kind words.
dwight
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So crazy to think there was a time where you couldn’t obsessively take pregnancy tests! Happy birthday to your brother!
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Yes back in the dark ages!! LOL
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Adorable pic! Happy Birthday, Phil! 🙂
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Thank you Susi for your kind comment. The house in the photo is the same house you would not recognize in my post today!
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You’re welcome, Dwight! Oh, can you snap a pic of what it looks like today?
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Yes, It was my post yesterday! Looking into Time’s Mirror.
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Ah! Thanks, I’m usually behind on my reading. 😉
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Belated wishes to Philip . Such an adorable post roth ✨✨
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Thank you very much!
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