(Written just prior to the first Iraq war)
What do you say to the little girl’s mom
When all she has left is the child in her arms
And the girl is there, and the girl is dead…
What do you say to the little girl’s mom?
*Refrain:
What do you say when no answers come
When the battle is over and the war is won
How can you say it was worth the cost
When the one you loved most is lost?
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What do you say to the mother whose son
Was killed in the war so that freedom is won
And the boy is there and the boy is dead…
What do you say to the mother at home?
*
What do you say to the young wife at home
When all she has left is the flag in her palms?
And her husband is there, and her husband is dead
What do you say to the young wife at home?
*Refrain:
What do you say when no answers come
When the battle is over and the war is won
How can you say it was worth the cost
When the one you loved most is lost?
*
What do you say to the little girl’s Mom…
Photo: Dwight L. Roth
Dwight L. Roth 3/03 & 4/04 Originally written as a song…
Today at d’Verse, Bjorn asked us to write a war poem. War is such a tragedy, with so many lives lost and maimed. But the saddest part is collateral damage of children killed in the carnage. I was asked, before the first invasion of Iraq, what I thought about President Bush sending troupes over there. I said it will probably end up being another Viet Nam. A no win war with extreme losses. With the second invasion and the expansion into Afghanistan, it has become a quicksand for the US.
This is my song I wrote back at the beginning, as I thought of all those families that would be displaced and permanently damaged by the war.
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Reposting today on d’Verse, for Punnam’s prompt, requesting that we write and anti-war poem, showing the tragedy of war. The questions of this one still are not answered!
very powerful reflection on the impact of those left behind!
Although we lived with the war damaged ones who returned and that was no picnic either 😦
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It is a sad that those who promote war are not the ones who go an fight!
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never, and they ensure that their offspring never go either … that tells us a lot!
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Only the peasants go of to the Valley of doom!
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😦 brainwashed canon fodder who have NO idea 😦
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:<(
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Your work is very inspiring ♥️🔥
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Thank you very much! I appreciate your comment!
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Daylight again
Following me to bed
I think about 100 years ago
How my fore fathers bled
I think I see a valley
Cover in bones of blue
All the brave soldiers who cannot grow older
Been asking after you
Hear the past a’calling
From Armageddon’s side
When everyone’s talking and nobody listening
How can we decide?
Do we find the cost of freedom
Buried in the ground?
Mother earth will swallow you
Lay your body down
— Stephen Stills 1970, 1978
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When everyone’s talking and nobody listening
How can we decide?
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Thanks Ray!
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We better start listening to each other. I close with a tagline that, in part says, look after each other. Listening is a way of looking after each other.
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Yes, When we don’t listen, we usually end up fighting… and everyone loses as a result!
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That’s where we’ve been for the last four years.
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Seems more like twenty or so…
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and what do you say if the war is won and everyone’s lost someone and you can’t even hug them. No words Dwight!!! 🙏🙏❤️😢
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Thank you Cindy! It is a very sad scenario indeed!
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You’re welcome Dwight, it sure is!❤️
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Beautiful.
When the Iraq war happened my niece was a Rhode Scholar at Oxford. She was so shaken up that she quit her research and came back to India. She has done amazing work on the education of the underprivileged since then. We are so proud of her
No war has ever really helped.
Peace unto all 🙏
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Thank you so much for sharing this. You are exactly right. The devastation far outweighs the outcome in most cases. I am so glad to hear of the work you daughter is doing to help change the world for the better!
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Oh Dwight this is very pointed and powerful…
“How can you say it was worth the cost
When the one you loved most is lost?”
… I’ve written a number of ‘war’ poems over the years…. ‘war’ is a very painful subject…
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It is so very sad Ivor! and we neve seem to learn from our past! Perhaps if the ones who promote it would be sent to the front, things would end much faster! Thank you!
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Wow Dwight, that is a helluva song! If you find somebody to put a music bed together, send me the file in Garage Band format — and I will sing and produce it… I am serious as a sunrise. Think about it.
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I would love to hear it.
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My format here does not let me load mp3 stuff!
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That’s a shame.
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Thank you Rob. I am so glad you like it. I have recorded it onto a cd format. Send me your address on email and I will mail you a copy. dwru27@aol.com
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That’s the beauty of songs and poems, Dwight, they are interchangeable. You make an important point in this poem/song about the loss of so many innocent children. I like the way it’s structured using questions and repetition, driving home the message.
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Thank you Kim. And in the end they all live with their individual losses! Very sad.
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So beautiful and tender lyrics / poem. As every word rings so true I can
only return to the question ‘ What do I you say ‘ . There is no defence or solace for such losses.
Miriam
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Thank you so much! Yes, some see it as a win, while others live with the collateral damage for ever!
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You are a wise man, Dwight. You saw what would come.
-David
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Seems we never learn from History! Very sad to see developing… and then after 9-11 the same scenario all over. Revenge is never sweet nor clean and swift! Thank you David!
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So very lyrically powerful
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Thank you Derrick!
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I was very moved by your song. The thing hardest to bear must be the knowledge that, in the end, your loved one died for nothing.
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So very sad indeed! Thank you Liz. I am glad it spoke to you!
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You’re welcome, Dwight!
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We never learn…(K)
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What an amazing piece, Dwight! Powerful and lyrical words!
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Thank you! I believe it speaks to the aspect of war we seldom consider!
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Yes, so true, Dwight!
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So sad! I pray daily for world-wide peace. Why can’t we just love one another?
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Yes it is very sad to see what is going on in the world.
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🙏 hats off to you, Dwight: you’ve put it so heartbreakingly simply yet beautifully. Writing it as a song, or I would say a lament, seems the perfect format to express such indelible sorrow.
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Thank you so much Ingrid! These are so often overlooked as they live with the after affects of War.
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This is incredibly heart-stirring, Dwight! I must confess I became a little teary-eyed. Beautiful, beautiful poem 💝💝
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Beautifully done, Dwight! I long for the day when there are no more wars.
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Yes, I agree!
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There are no victors …… everyone loses in one form or another. Vietnam did our family in …. ultimately.
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You are right… only lasting fall out and grief! Sad to hear of your family and its effects from Viet Nam.
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This made me think about Pete Seeger, and “where have all the flowers gone”… war is such a sad sentiment… and knowing now that both wars were started from a cause partly built on lies,
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That really was the kicker! The old warmongers advising young bush were just itching to get a foothold in the middle east. Power really does corrupt the common good! Yes… “When will they ever learn…”
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We need to get our noses out of the business of the rest of the world and use our resources to renovate our infrastructure and get ourselves into balance, economically and spiritually as a nation. We are hurting. Use the military troops here to rebuild or get another Civilian Conservation Corps going. War should be the LAST thing on our minds. Dwight I remember back then and was horror-stricken at all that transpired during the Bush years.
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I was as well and it all played out as predicted and we will live with the fall out for years to come! Thank you for your comment. I agree Think of what could have been done to help the world if those billions had been used to build instead of destroy!
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For so many, the ending of one war is the beginning of another. Your words brought tears.
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Thank you Mary for your compassionate comment! I agree, the devastation brings every kind of trauma imaginable. When will we ever learn??
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This is incredibly powerful. I was struck most by the image of the flag within the one stanza. And mostly, the repetition, the refrain….and the war after war after war…the war is the refrain. When will we learn?
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Thank you Lillian! I am glad it connected with you. The tragedies of war are often covered over. But the memories linger on forever with those who were there!
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A very moving song, Dwight. Even though you wrote it at a particular time and about a particular war, it could apply to any war.
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Thank you Merril. I agree. War carries with it tragedy and loss every time it happens.
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I can hear it. Well penned, Dwight.
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Thank you Ken! It is in a minor key so that ads to the effect!
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Beautiful song, Dwight! If we were all more empathetic to the whole human race, if young people were not so brainwashed by visions of patriotism and glory, if older people were less power-hungry and greedy, there would be far fewer wars. ❤ I would like to hear your song! Take care!
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Your are so right! Thank you Cheryl!
I guess you will have to make up a tune of your own for it!
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Well…you can sing for me anytime just amazing grace war tramatised various families
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Thank you! :>)
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