
When I retired from teaching elementary school, in 1998, I still had fifteen years until I could fully retire. I ran my own Home Repair business for two and a half years, and then taught a building construction class with the Community College for another two and a half years.
It was the winter of 2005, and my class of ten students dwindled down to six, after the first week. We were partnering with Habitat for Humanity, giving them hands on experience in actually building houses. The snow that came that first week caused a few to drop out. As a result, the class was canceled. It was discouraging to me to be left without an income until another class could be scheduled.
My friend Bunky ran a vinyl siding business. He heard that my class was canceled, and called asking if I would come and fill in for a couple of weeks as sales manager for the warehouse. He had just fired his whole warehouse staff “for selling siding out the back door!” I knew nothing about vinyl siding and just a little about the computer, but I agreed to do what I could. This was Saturday. I went in on Sunday afternoon to learn how to do invoices on the computer, and started work the next day! It was very unsettling to attempt to run the warehouse by myself, but I learned all about it. That was on Valentines Day, 2005, and I continued to work for him for the next six years, until I retired in 2011!
Snowfall takes its toll
Students not ready to work
Friends help each other
Photo: Dwight L. Roth
Today at d’Verse, Lillian asked to think of a time in our life when we had a New Beginning! She asked us to write a Haibun consisting of up to three short paragraphs followed by a traditional Haiku.
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Wow. That is quite a slice of life, Dwight!
Good for you!
-David
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It was a most interesting time for sure! Thank you David.
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Thanks for sharing your story and haibun. I am inspired. Keep writing!
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Thank you Mark. I will try!
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Serendipity at its finest!
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Yes!! Thank you very much!
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Thank you for sharing, Dwight! You’re a multi-gifted man! Friends show up just at the right time ❄️
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Yes they do and old dogs can learn new tricks
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Oh, yes, several times in my lifetime!
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Absolutely!! 😄🐶
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:>)
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Thank you for your comment! Yes, it always helps to have connection and community in your life. I would be lost without it. This has been a difficult year in that respect!
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You’re very welcome! I agree 💯!
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Great story and bit of history Dwight! that must have been quite unsettling but you are so resilient and it has sure paid off in dividends!.
love your poem to go with it. ❤️
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Yes, I have enjoyed the many new beginnings in my life!
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You sure have and here’s to more to come!!! ❤️
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One day at a time these days! :>)
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That sounds about right! ❤️🤗
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Thank you for you comments Cindy!
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You are so welcome!! ❤️
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God always provides!! Great haibun!
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Yes, you are right!
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You don’t let any moss grow under your feet, do you!
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No, I like to keep busy! :>)
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I liked this post for such an uplifting message. Thank you.
Joanna
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Thank you Joanna! I have been well blessed in my lifetime!
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That’s a great story! The haibun was a perfect form to tell it. A case in point for it all working out in the end!
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Yes, one door closed, allows another one to open! Thank you for your kind comment!
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You’re welcome!
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🤍 the amazing places the universe takes us….if we just say yes.
🤍🤗
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Yes, life is full of unexpected adventures!
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Dwight, that is quite a story! My life has been a crazy patchwork, but I am always surprised to find I am not the only one. In your case, you have developed a multitude of talents and avocations. I admire that very much! I enjoyed the well-written halibun! All the best! ❤ ❤ ❤
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Thank you so much Cheryl. Our lives really are a giant mosaic! I value each aspect of it that have given me so much enjoyment and knowledge! Enjoy every opportunity!
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God had a plan, and you had the faith to try something new. Nice picture!
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Thank you! Yes you are right. I really enjoyed my time there. There is something new to learn in every situation!
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Always!
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Great share, Dwight! Doors always seem to open, don’t they? 😊✨✨🎉
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Yes they do! Thank you Chuck. Makes us feel hopeful for the coming year!
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😊✨🎉👍
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you will certainly turn your hand to anything Dwight! Kind mate and sounds like it worked out well for both of you.
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Yes, I learned a lot about vinyl siding and he, being older than me, had so many interesting life stories to tell! We got along very well! Thank you so much for you comment!
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yes, sharing our stories is important, bet he appreciated someone ready to listen!
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Yes he enjoyed having a chance to tell his stories.
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as we all do!
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yes!
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It sounds like your new beginning worked out just fine because of your willingness to learn (unlike your students!)
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I had not made that association, but you are right! Attitude does make a big difference!
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You did well with this
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Thank you Derrick! I appreciate you kind affirmation!
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It’s amazing how life works out, full of surprises, around the corner.
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It does make for some interesting time! Thank you for your comment!
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You are welcome.
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You were fortunate to have both opportunities and the willingness to try new things, Dwight. Thanks for sharing your story. I think it also shows that your friend knew and trusted you to be able to do the job, and I imagine he’s not the only friend you have who feels that way. Oh–and Happy New Year!
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Thank you Merril! and Happy New Year to you! I have been blessed with many trusted friends in my lifetime. Some have passed, but many still remain! Thank you for your kind words.
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Enjoyed this very much, Dwight. One of the things I really like about haibuns is we get to know our dVerse friends so much better through their stories here. I do bet your were a wonderful elementary school teacher! 🙂 And here, a friendship led to new skills and a new career. Thanks for sharing!
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Thank you Lillian! I enjoyed teaching and tried to make it hands on as much as possible! I also loved working for my friend. It was a great new beginning!
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Funny how we can look back on our lives and realize how it unfolded by seeming happenstance and serendipity! I think age brings idle moments of “what ifs”!
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Thank you Beverly. Yes, I believe we often have the tenancy to second guess ourselves!
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What an interesting tale, Dwight. Your haiku sums it up well. So many things in life depend on friendship. The gifts we give to others can work both ways.
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Thank you Ken! Yes, the more we give the more we receive in return!
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There’s much joy and comfort in looking back, isn’t there, to see all the “saves” we’ve been gifted! 🙂
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I feel life is very providential and we need to fit into the plan. Many things in my life seemed to work out that way! Thank you for you comment!
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One of the best true story Haibuns! Happy New Year!
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Thank you Helen for your kind words!
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Life is so unpredictable and you are clearly adaptable and flexible! I loved your story. 😀
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Thank you Michele. It has been an interesting ride!
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I love how friends can help each other out… you helped him and he helped you… I do not think we have vinyl siding here (never seen it on any house)…
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Very interesting! It would probably get to brittle in the intense cold. You must have wood, brick, block, and stucco, Yes it was a symbiotic relationship!
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How fun it is to learn a little more about you!
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You had me from the beginning as I am in the same predicament. “Retired” without an income. The risk of COVID took me from my world of working hands on with virus spreading toddlers. SO, what to do now? You mastered a new skill in no time and you give me hope, Dwight.
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Thank you Mish! It took a few months, but in time everything became familiar. Perhaps you can get you vaccine and go back to work with the little ones!
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Vaccine will be a definite! Can’t wait for that.
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Inspired by you. Great story and haibun! Thanks for sharing.
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Thank you so much for your kind words!
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My most pleasure🙂
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So interesting! Seeing your hand at so many things, picking up one more was never going to be a challenge for you anyway. It’s inspiring how you are always ready to learn something new, something many of us forget after getting falsely shielded inside our comfort zones.
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I always love learning new things. I have enjoyed all the jobs I have had. Each one had its perks!
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I am glad you enjoyed this one Deb. I like do it myself projects. All of the jobs I have had allowed me to apply my do it myself interests.
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Thank you!
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Oh Dwight your story and the quick decision-making on your part to accept the offer from your friend reminds me of my father, he’s a self made man and have, on many occasions, saved himself from unemployment in very similar ways. Thanks for sharing, I hope to become like him one day.
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Thank you Jay for your kind words. I am sure you will always do well in life. When doors open we must walk through to succeed! I am sure your father is very proud of you!
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You’re most welcome, Dwight! Oh my Dad is the best, thanks :))
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:>)
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Amazing to hear how you never gave up! You have lovely friends 🙂 amazing story
-TheLifeWeChose
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Good friends are wonderful. It was a great collaboration. Thank you!
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Please feel free to give my post “Changes” a read. I’m just starting out and every view is appreciated 🙂
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I will check it out!
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I could not find any post on your blog feed!?
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I think I’m a little lost they are under published but maybe I’m missing something? 😂
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It says “The Life We Choose” and July 7
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I’m not sure why when I got direct to the address it’s all there theliveswechoose.wordpress.com
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I will try that!
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I think I have sorted it 😂 could you see if it works for me now? Sorry to be a pain! What a total drama!
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Still the same… The blog title for July 7 Hello World.
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I am getting in touch with an expert 😂 I thought I had done everything I needed to 🤦🏽♂️
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That sounds like a good plan!
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I haven’t received a response but I think I have sussed it out!
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https://theliveswechoose.wordpress.com/2021/01/11/changes/
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This one worked!
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