I was sad to receive word last week that that my childhood neighbor had passed away at age 94. He was such a creative and talented man and father of a my childhood friend and playmate. When I saw him two years ago, he still had many good memories to share. It reminded me once again of the impermanence of life.
It has been over fifty years since I lived next door in my childhood home, which now gives the impression of impermanence as you can see. This evening Merril, at d’Verse Poets Pub, asked us to write a poem that reflects on the significance of impermanence.
Nature reminds us
Everything in life changes;
The sun still rises.
But houses deteriorate;
And good friends and neighbors die.
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I’m sorry to hear about your neighbor:(. Yes, nothing is forever , that’s why we should make it count ❤️
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That is for sure. Each new day is all we have! Thank you so much!
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❤️
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aw, I’m sorry, it is a reminder of the temporary state of life
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Yes, it was good to see him again… sad to see my house. Thanks Beth.
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Sorry to hear about your neighbor. Wise words.
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Thank you so much. We have many good memories that will always be with us.
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So nice.
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Thank you!
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thank you for sharing this bittersweet story. a reminder of life fleeting.
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Good memories can outweigh the changes that are bound to happen. Thank you.
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So true.
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Oh, that old house holds a lot of happy memories. Sad you have lost your neighbour. He sounds like a lovely man.
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The old house holds thirty one years of good memories for our family. My parents left it in 1967, but the memories will always last. Our neighbor was a very kind and generous man. He lived in his own home until he died.
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Very true! Nothing is forever! For this reason we should see each day as a new opportunity! 💕
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Yes, and make the most of each one!
Thank you
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My condolences
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Thank you so much!
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So very true. I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing this bittersweet reflection–the transience of life and the memories that remain.
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It seems this is always the way it is. We must enjoy the memories and live a day at a time. Thank you Merril. This was an interesting prompt.
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I’m so pleased you liked it!
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Beautiful and sad at the same time. So sorry to hear of the loss. Beautiful that you got to share that moment two years ago. Thank you for sharing.
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We have many good memories, so though it is sad it is also OK and the way things are in life.
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Thank you so much!
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My heart hurts for your loss, but rejoices at the sweetness of childhood memories. How blessed at 92 that your neighbor still had an active, vivid mind … And how sweet to have reached the ripe old age of 94. At 80, I PRAY daily for continued health and the privilege of a keen mind for another decade or two. But, it’s true, we can’t count on permanence in this world. But we can… In the next! 😘♥️
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Thank you for your excellent comment. I believe we all hope and pray for a clear mind to the end of life. Nothing is guaranteed in this life. We will see what is in store when our spirit rises!
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Yes indeed!
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So true!!! I’ve lost so many friends I’m beginning to feel like the last woman standing! We live our lives in chapters, and each chapter has its own gifts. I’ve told my children I want my epitaph to be “What’s Next?”
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I love it! Thanks for your comment.
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Death, houses and untended lawns do remind one of impermanence.
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For sure!
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Each candle is brief, but look at the light each gives.
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Yes and can be seen for miles!
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I’m sorry to hear of your neighbor’s death. Your poem captures the impermanence of life very well.
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Thank you so much! It is sad and reminds us of the impermanence of all of us!
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That is such a good way of looking at it.
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Thank you!
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Indeed everything changes… I am emptying my childhood home at the moment and it’s so filled with memories.
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A mixture of happy and sad to have to find places for tangible memories~ Very few to be cherished by then next generation and beyond.
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Reblogged this on The Reluctant Poet.
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So sorry to hear of your sad loss. A reminder to us all how transient and precious life is.
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Thank you for your kind words! It does remind us all.
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In my thoughts and prayers. Have a blessed day.
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Thank you very much for your kind words.
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Cheers. Best Regards.
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I am so sorry for your loss Dwight. He seems like the kindest man, a great friend and a wonderful neighbour. May he rest in peace.
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Yes he was all of the above! Thank you so much!
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How heartbreaking! 😦 You’re so right, nothing is permanent. Celebrate life! ❤
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Thank you!
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So sorry for your loss. 💜
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Thank you very much!
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