The week after Thanksgiving in 2012 we received news that my wife’s mother was diagnosed with an inoperable brain tumor. She was 86 years old and after consulting with the family, made the decision not to pursue extended treatments. The doctors said she would probably not live more than a month or two. She lived until August of 2013.
Waiting in real time for what we all know is going to happen is not always easy. She made the most of her time left, celebrating Christmas with us at the care facility she moved into. Her attitude was one of peaceful resignation all the way through. Her nurses loved her and took very good care of her. She said that she had lived a full life and was ready to go.
Her time had now come
Peaceful resignation her choice
Snow falls// silent night
Photos: Dwight L. Roth
Imelda, our guest host at d’Verse, asked us to write a Haibun that talks about waiting. I am sharing a very personal time of waiting that happened to us a few years ago.
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